Get Educated!!!
First and Foremost....
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This is the fundamental etiquette in swinging, the right to say “NO”. It is simple and straightforward, and polite to say NO Thank You.
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No one likes a pushy or overly persistent person. With your approach, act calmly and mannerable.
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Respect all boundaries between couples and singles. Treat others politely as you would want to be treated.
Do you know the difference between swinging and the lifestyle?
A swinger or swingers are couples that are actually in a real committed relationship within the swinger lifestyle that prefers sexual encounters with other couples like themselves that are open and like minded.
The lifestyle is a group of members brought together in a like minded atmosphere where you can feel free to be free and be yourself openly
(dancing provocatively, dressing provocatively, flirting)
Singles Approaching Couples
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A single woman always approaches the lady of the couple about a possible play date.
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Understanding the respect between the couple, never approach the gentleman separately on your own.
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Although some couples prefer couples and single ladies only, some do prefer a single male.
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Single males always approach the gentleman of the couple.
Couples Approaching Couples
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Couples that are interested in other couples: Ladies always approach the ladies, Men always approach the men. The same approach is used for exchanging contact information.
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With getting to know a couple, the approach will be: dinner or drinks to get to know each other before engaging in sexual activities.
Safe Sex is the Best Sex
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During any event that you go to, only safe sex is permitted (even spouses during a private play session with another couple)
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Fully get to know members before indulging in sexual activities. Health is a big part of Swinging, make sure you get 6 months – 1 year STDs and HIV tests. (Always practice safe sex)
Cleanliness and Hygiene
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At each event that you attend, make sure that you have showered and freshened up nicely. (Smelling good is a turn on for men and women)
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Although we will provide wash up tools such as: (mouth wash, towels, feminine wash, baby wipes, and condoms, we encourage members to bring their own personal hygiene kit, Safe consentual adult play is mandatory.
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Please pick up after yourselves including: trash, cups, and condoms.
Phone Policies
No electronic devices are allowed in any private
play areas due to respecting the members that are
privately playing within the play areas.
There will be a designated photographer that will
only provide pictures of the party.
Don’t record, post, or update to any social media
accounts during all events.
No EXCEPTIONS!! You will be asked to leave the
premises of the event if the violate these rules and banned from future events.
Do Not kiss and tell!!
During any play date don’t share whom you
encountered a play date with. What goes on
privately in a event setting or personal setting,
absolutely needs to stay there. As this is a secret
lifestyle that we are living, we ask to keep all
members identities secret.